Patient's question:
Tonight on the way home from the car, the child asked to watch Spider-Man. The mother said it was okay to watch for ten minutes. The child said he wanted to watch for fourteen minutes. The mother suggested that they count from 1 to 20, then count down from 20 to 1, and then watch for fourteen minutes. Later, the child disagreed, and slowly started crying, saying that the mother didn't love him, that the mother him every day, that the father didn't love him, and that the grandparents didn't love him either. He didn't want to live with others.Hearing this, the mother felt extremely heartbroken! She never expected that she was seen this way in her child's heart. What should she do?
Doctor's answer:
According to your description, the child is being taken care of by the elders. This is the most heartbreaking part for a child; he needs the love and companionship of his parents. Please overcome difficulties and spend more time with the child during his most needy age, filling in the emotional void. In addition to communicating more with the child and listening to his true thoughts, do not hit the child, and give him a complete childhood. Pay more attention to the older child in this situation. As time passes, things may return to normal. Also, do not hit the child frequently.