Don't touch my lover: Relationship counseling expert Shu Chang guides you out of the emotional whirlpool

Author: Shu Chang
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Publish Date: 2006-07-01
Features: Love requires respect. And respect can be mutually infectious. Men respect women's tenderness, beauty, and gentleness, while women respect men's strength, courage, and the wealth they create. On the basis of respect, both men and women experience the energy of love. Perhaps baseless suspicion has brought your family to the brink of collapse, or perhaps your innate personality has made your emotions turbulent, or perhaps painful memories have caused your marriage to crumble. These emotional knots that drive one into confusion occupy life, disrupt work, and lead people to fall into the of emotions without realizing it. Through vivid examples and lively characters, experts use their rich social experience and professional psychological analysis methods to delve deep into the unknown inner world, interpret helpless emotional doubts, and expose blind romantic and marital misconceptions, thereby establishing correct views on romantic and marital emotions. In the Garden of Eden of love, few can escape the bitterness intertwined with the sweetness. The magic of love lies in the yin-yang interaction between the two genders and the dreams it creates. In forgetting reality and not knowing where they stand, people experience the roller-coaster-like ups and downs and the blissful forgetfulness of love. Grasping and controlling love is a difficult task. But both men and women share a common desire—to be the one and only in each other's love. The catch is that the dreams of the two cannot awaken at the same time. Thus, a kaleidoscope of emotions—love and hatred—emerges between men and women. Eventually, even the parties themselves become unclear whether they are loving or hating. The purpose of this book is to help readers understand that the love of ordinary people is related to their inner expectations and desires. Love that comes without understanding the situation is hard to sustain in the long run. We are not saints, and from childhood to adulthood, we don't know at which stage we might lose something or have something unmet, all of which is hidden in our subconscious. Later in life, we unconsciously seek and demand these things. Often, this thirst appears in intimate relationships between the two genders, because the loss usually occurs in childhood within the close relationship with parents. What is lost is then searched for in that same place. That is why adult intimate relationships between the two genders become so complex! This book is divided into five chapters, covering topics such as how men and women find emotional balance, the relationship between love and sex, and who is responsible for a good marriage.