Patient's question:
Hello, I had an early understanding of sex and had a very strong sexual desire. Before marriage, I used to masturbate multiple times by rinsing my private area with water. Now that I have sex with my partner, no matter what, I cannot reach an orgasm. Can it be treated? Can it be cured? My partner is normal.First follow-up question: Isn’t there a lot of sensitive areas on the body? But for me, none of them feel anything. Even the playful touches before intimacy don’t make me feel any desire.
Second follow-up question: We have tried various methods, but none of them have worked.
Doctor's answer:
Hello:Female orgasms are divided into clitoral orgasms and G-spot orgasms; they are two different types of sexual experiences.
The clitoris is located above the urethral opening, with significant individual size variations, ranging from rice grain to finger-sized (diameter 0.3-1 cm). Its structure is similar to the male penis, and it has an erection function during sexual arousal. It is an extremely sensitive organ, and simple stimulation can trigger an orgasm. It is also the most commonly stimulated area for many women during masturbation. However, during sexual intercourse, when fully aroused, it may be hidden due to the congestion and enlargement of the labia majora and minora. Therefore, the penis cannot directly stimulate the clitoris during intercourse; it only receives indirect stimulation from surrounding tissues. For the highly sensitive clitoris, this stimulation is sufficient to induce an orgasm. In certain specific sexual positions (such as rear entry), a man can also manually stimulate the clitoris, which can make it easier for a woman to reach orgasm.
The female G-spot orgasm is a modern discovery. The G-spot refers to a sensitive area on the anterior wall of the vagina. Although there is no clear anatomical evidence to support it, studies have found that stimulating the G-spot can trigger a female orgasm. Moreover, this type of orgasm is different from the clitoral orgasm. During sexual intercourse, the rear entry position is easier to stimulate the G-spot, which is also why some women can only enjoy an orgasm in this position.
The awareness of the female G-spot adds color to the beauty of sexual life. Various pleasant sexual experiences can maintain the attractiveness of sexual life, contributing to a wonderful