Mother's School

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Publish Date: 2000-05-01
Features: In her novel The Unfolding Life, Bi Shumin writes about a named Tian Tian, who suffers from an incurable illness. Her mother, Qiao Xianzhu, in the face of impending disaster, sees other children playing healthily and joyfully, while her own child lies sick on the bed: "The soft girl is shrunk like a hard rolling pin, every muscle shining like iron. Her tiny body is like a bow for shooting eagles, rebounding on the. Countless sweat droplets splash from this bizarre human rainbow, as if icicles on the eaves melt in spring." Thus, the mother Qiao Xianzhu, momentarily losing her balance, screams hysterically: "I hate you! Why are your children all healthy, but my child has to suffer from such a disease? It's unfair, God!" Tian Tian's father, Lao Jiang, seeing his daughter constantly twitching in agony, ",,." And the outsiders who come to visit Tian Tian, some of whom are parents themselves, after seeing the dying child, return home and the first thing they do is kiss their own children as if in a sudden downpour.
Every child should know how much their parents love them and never forget such selfless love. Even if parents make mistakes or disappoint us, this love is enough to fill everything. Parents can love their children 100%, and children should also show love to their parents with the same heart. Only by being generous, forgiving, and selfless can a child truly love their parents. Forgiveness is a noble virtue of love. We must not only forgive friends and children but also forgive our parents. After all, no one is a saint; everyone makes some disappointing mistakes, and parents' mistakes should be sympathetic. No matter how wrong parents may be, they still hope for their children's well-being. There are absolutely no parents who wish their children ill.
What matters is that children should understand and forgive their parents, repaying their aged parents with the same selfless and unwavering love they have for them. Motherly love, in the same way that a child's separation from their mother represents, has a negative purpose in educating them—to help them transcend their natural, instinct-driven, and sensory-dominated level, achieving self-reliance and personal freedom, or the ability to break free from the natural unit of the family. —Hegel
Children separate from their mother's womb and detach from the mother's body, becoming infants. Then, under their mother's protection, they gradually grow into fully independent individuals. Motherly love means the gradual separation of two originally united people. In this love, the mother endures the physical pain of childbirth and the emotional pain of her child's independence from the family. Not only must she endure the pain but also support her child's journey toward independence, always welcoming them back when they feel tired, allowing them to rest under her tolerance and care. A mother's love,