Patient's question:
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years. A few days ago, we had sex for the first time. For the previous 3 years, I had been pleasuring him manually. This time, we had sex for the first time, but neither of us was happy. He said he felt no pleasure at all. We tried many different positions, but still nothing. I also didn't feel any pleasure. In the following days, we had sex several more times, but still no pleasure. He also didn't orgasm. I think this is because my manual stimulation was too forceful, so it wasn't tight enough when we had sex, and he likes the tight feeling, which is why he didn't feel anything. What should we do in this situation? Is there any method to improve it?Doctor's answer:
Generally speaking, women reach sexual climax later than men, possibly because the stimulation of sensitive sexual organs is not sufficient. It is recommended to enhance stimulation of these areas during sexual activity (mainly the clitoris), and also to have sufficient foreplay.