Patient's question:
I got married to my husband after dating for two years. Before the wedding, I always thought he had never had sexual activity because his thoughts were too traditional. But when we got married, I found out he was actually sexually unresponsive. Every time I wanted to be intimate with him, he would show frustration, and even disliked the sexual activity. However, he is indeed very caring towards me in other aspects and always thinks about me in everything.What kind of help do I need: How long can an asexual marriage last?
Doctor's answer:
Friends can also stay together for life. Then, if a couple treats each other as friends, there will only be the "marriage" aspect of the relationship. The essence of marriage will be lost. If a normal person lacks the "sexual" aspect in marriage, the relationship will likely end, breaking free from the constraints of marriage.If your partner is truly unhealthy, and if he agrees that you should go your separate ways, you don’t necessarily have to divorce him. Giving him a complete marital structure can also be a form of comfort. If he is a normal person, since love does not exist between you, only a faint bond remains between husband and wife. When you cannot convince him to meet your expectations, you are completely free to seek a new life and new love for the sake of love.