Patient's question:
I just got a girlfriend, and we haven't had any intimate moments yet, so I'm not very knowledgeable about sex. I want to know how to make my girlfriend more comfortable during sex. Is it that the harder the man is, the more comfortable the woman will be, or is it that the bigger it is, the more comfortable she will be? What kind of help do I want: Is it true that the harder the man is, the more comfortable the woman will be?Doctor's answer:
It's not that every woman likes a big penis; women cannot tolerate extremely large penises. In my opinion, size is just right, and women generally prefer similar sizes. The important thing is to satisfy them, and it doesn't necessarily require a large penis to achieve that! You should understand what clitoral orgasm is, so pay attention to stimulating the clitoris. Make sure to coordinate everything well. Remember, penis size becomes irrelevant at that point. Generally, a hardness and size that are moderate are sufficient, but it shouldn't be too soft—too soft, and it might not even be able to penetrate. If it's too large or too hard, it can easily cause vaginal injury, leading to conditions like vaginitis. Therefore, the harder or bigger it is, the more comfortable a woman is not necessarily the case.