Patient's question:
When I have sex with my wife, the amount of fluid she has down there is always very little. Every time I try to enter, it's very difficult, and it feels very dry inside. I always need to use lubricant. I've heard that women usually have a lot of fluid down there, and some even spray water during climax. It's possible that I'm not doing it well enough.What kind of help do I need: How can I make her spray water?
Doctor's answer:
After receiving a certain amount of sexual stimulation, the appearance of female lubrication marks the entry of a woman into the excitement phase of the sexual response cycle. As the duration of stimulation continues or the intensity increases, the amount of lubrication can also increase continuously, even forming a fluid flow that flows along the perineum towards the anal area. In the past, it was believed that lubrication came from the Bartholin's glands, but it has now been confirmed that the secretion of these glands is not significant, and at most, they can only lubricate the vaginal opening. During sexual arousal, the vaginal walls become congested. If the congestion continues to intensify, a large amount of altered plasma leaks out from the vaginal epithelium. These secretory cells can secrete "cervical mucus," the amount of which is primarily influenced by the menstrual cycle, increasing as it gets closer to ovulation. However, under strong sexual arousal, its secretion can also increase. This secretion is slightly alkaline and has a mild neutralizing effect on the vaginal acidic environment, thereby protecting sperm as they pass through the cervix into the uterine cavity and creating favorable conditions for fertilization.However, the expression of sexual pleasure varies from person to person. It's unnecessary to pursue a standard—what matters most is mutual satisfaction and happiness. Before sexual activity, it's important to engage in more foreplay to increase lubrication and promote smoothness. It is also recommended to adopt a woman-on-top position, as this can provide more stimulation to the clitoris, making it easier to reach orgasm and enhance pleasure. The clitoris is the most sensitive area of a woman's body and should be well-utilized. When necessary, it can be complemented with visual and auditory stimulation to add a bit of (romance or excitement).
A woman's sexual desire is greatly influenced by her sexual experience and exposure. Generally, it takes time and experience to fully appreciate and understand.