Patient's question:
I've been married for less than a month, and every time I have sex with my husband, he finishes before I reach orgasm. It's usually only a few minutes each time, and it's pretty much the same every time. At first, I thought it was because we were just starting out, but now it's been over a month, and it's still the same. Is this normal? Also, how long do men usually last during sex?What kind of help I want: How long do men usually last during sex?
Doctor's answer:
Normal men's sexual intercourse time without a condom starts from the insertion into the female vagina and continuous thrusting. If it lasts more than 8 minutes, it's not considered premature ejaculation. In medical terms, if the duration of normal sexual intercourse is less than 8 minutes, it falls into the category of premature ejaculation. Since you mentioned your boyfriend's sexual intercourse time is less than 3 minutes and it's not his first time, it means this is his usual pattern. This would be considered premature ejaculation, and he should seek medical attention for examination and treatment. Additionally, he should prepare well beforehand and communicate more with his wife to overcome psychological factors. It is recommended that your husband exercise more, as it is said to possibly alleviate premature ejaculation.