What is the reason for not being able to have an orgasm during sex?

Patient's question:

Patient's gender: Female
Patient's age: 32
I want to ask why I can't have an orgasm during sex. First of age

Doctor's answer:

Actually, at your age, it is a period when sexual desire is naturally quite high. The most important reason for low libido is still due to poor sexual experiences. The sexual techniques of both partners also play a significant role. Orgasm is not achieved through penetration; it is created through effort. Some women may experience orgasm from the very beginning, while others may never experience it in their entire lives.
It is recommended to increase foreplay before sexual activity, focusing on gentle massages of sensitive areas to enhance lubrication. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Stimulating the clitoris more can promote lubrication and make the experience more pleasurable. Additionally, it is advisable to adopt the male-on-top position, as this can provide more stimulation to the clitoris, making it easier to reach orgasm and experience pleasure.
When there is pleasure and orgasm, there is a greater likelihood of enjoying sexual activity. Enjoyment leads to more pleasure and orgasm. Enjoyment of sex increases lubrication, which in turn makes the experience more enjoyable, leading to pleasure, climax, and ultimately, a deeper connection. This is a mutually reinforcing cycle.