Patient's question:
I've been married for half a year, and I believe that our sexual life as a couple is very harmonious. We can communicate and understand each other, and even when there are moments of disappointment, we can comfort each other. Foreplay before bed is always thorough, and every time we feel happy.However, I've always had a lingering concern. Although I don't know about other women's experiences, I've never been able to understand where sexual climax comes from. Simple thrusting from my husband alone never gets me to climax, so the man-on-top position has never worked for us. In fact, I even find the thrusting in this position uncomfortable. However, all of my climaxes have come from lying on the bed with my husband thrusting from behind me.
Doctor's answer:
"I don't agree with the saying that the longer it lasts, the better. It really depends on the individual, not all women want it to last longer. My boyfriend usually gives me oral sex before insertion, and he only penetrates after I'm really excited. The duration of penetration is usually around 10 minutes, and I'm always very satisfied, often reaching orgasm. You can try it too. Wishing you all a happy sex life."