Patient's question:
I am almost two months pregnant. Last night, my husband couldn't resist and kept touching my lower body. A lot of water flowed out of my vagina. I insisted repeatedly, and my husband finally stopped. Last night, I felt a bit uncomfortable in my stomach. This morning, I didn't notice any vaginal bleeding, but I'm worried it might not be good for the baby.What kind of help do I need: Did my husband touching me and causing water to flow out affect the child?
Doctor's answer:
Sexual activity between husband and wife is a normal part of life for married couples. However, when a wife becomes pregnant, how to engage in sexual activity becomes a matter that requires high attention. To ensure the health of the fetus, sexual intercourse should be avoided during the first three months of pregnancy. Sexual activity should be prohibited during the first three months of pregnancy because, after becoming pregnant, a woman's endocrine functions change, reducing her desire for sexual activity. Additionally, there are psychological factors, such as the fear that sexual activity may affect the normal development and safety of the fetus. There are also physical factors, such as increased weight, reduced flexibility, slow movement, and general inconvenience.What is more important is that during the first three months of pregnancy, the embryo is in the developmental stage, especially the connection between the placenta and the uterine wall of the mother is not yet firm. If sexual activity occurs, improper movements or accidental carelessness during excessive excitement could cause the uterus to shake, easily leading to placental detachment and miscarriage. Even if great care is taken during sexual activity, pelvic congestion and uterine contractions in pregnant women can also cause miscarriage.
Attention should also be paid to bacterial infections caused by sexual activity. During pregnancy, secretions increase, making the external genital area more prone to ulcers and reducing resistance to bacteria. If bacterial infection symptoms worsen, there is a risk of miscarriage. Therefore, it is important to maintain local hygiene and pay special attention before engaging in sexual activity.
During the second trimester (4-7 months of pregnancy), the placenta has already formed, and the pregnancy is more stable, allowing for appropriate sexual activity. However, it should be done moderately, and attention should be paid to sexual positions and timing to avoid any impact on the fetus.