Patient's question:
1, Previously, I had sexual relations with my husband three times a week, but in the past two weeks, I haven't had any. I've also discussed this issue with my husband and read in the newspaper that other couples also have very infrequent sex. Is this normal, or is there something wrong between us? My husband said he's been too idle lately and doesn't want to have sex. Is that really the case? Actually, I haven't been very interested either. Recently, we've had a baby who's almost four and a half months old, and all my energy has been focused on the baby.2, Every time I have sex with my husband, my vagina hurts. Last year, I was diagnosed with second-degree vaginal inflammation and took some medication. There's also a "watery" discharge in my vagina that's clear.
Doctor's answer:
Hello: Sexual frequency varies from person to person. It is important to pay attention to rest and strengthen physical exercise. Maintain a cheerful mood.The objective standard for measuring whether sexual frequency is appropriate is whether you feel energetic and mentally pleasant the next morning. If the following symptoms occur within a day or several days after sexual activity, and no other causes can be identified, it can be considered excessive, and you should moderate your frequency and extend the interval between sexual activities.
(1) Mental fatigue, listlessness, lack of energy, easily feeling tired at work, difficulty concentrating on studies, drowsiness.
(2) General weakness, lower back and leg soreness, reluctance to move, feeling lightheaded, dizziness, seeing stars.
(3) Pale complexion, lack of vitality, weary appearance, thin body.
(4) Shortness of breath, occasional sweating, insomnia, difficulty falling asleep.
(5) Reduced appetite, loss of interest in food, poor digestion, and mild nausea.
If you experience these symptoms, it is important to correct them promptly by reducing the frequency of sexual activity. In severe cases, you may need to temporarily stop sexual activity. However, there is no need to worry excessively, as: Generally, if sexual activity is excessive, temporarily abstaining from sex, resting, and improving nutrition will not cause significant harm to health. Of course, if you continue to indulge, the consequences will not be favorable.