Patient's question:
Do virgins always experience pain the first time they have sex?Doctor's answer:
It's not certain. If your vagina is tight and the hymen opening is very small, it will be very painful, and your legs will be sore the next day. If your hymen opening is larger and thicker with greater elasticity, it won't break during the first few times, but it will still be painful—it won't be as painful as the first scenario. It's recommended to prepare well before sexual activity, reduce tension, communicate feelings, and avoid rushing. Since women's emotional arousal is generally slower than men's, it's best to engage in sufficient foreplay to allow her to become fully aroused and produce more lubrication before entering, which will make it relatively easier to reach climax together.