Patient's question:
Before having sex, it started off straight, but then it shrunk when it was about to go in. Recently, I had never had sex with her before.Doctor's answer:
Hello, impotence is caused by psychological factors. The main psychological factors leading to impotence are:① Fear of sexual intercourse, afraid it will harm the female's body or deplete one's "qi";
② Guilt or panic about masturbation, self-suggesting that masturbation can cause impotence;
③ Poor sexual environment, worrying about others knowing;
④ Poor marital relationship, mutual distrust or suspicion;
⑤ Fear of not being able to achieve an erection, worrying it will disappoint the female.
These factors can all lead to impotence.
Guidance:
Treatment for impotence should address different causes with different measures. For those with psychological impotence, "heart problems" need to be treated with "heart medicine" accordingly. Those afraid of pregnancy should adopt effective and simple contraceptive measures to eliminate fear. The female should provide necessary encouragement, comfort, and understanding to her husband, actively cooperating. Excessive blame, urging, complaining, or dissatisfaction can only worsen the husband's psychological burden, making him more anxious and tense. The more he tries to achieve sexual intercourse, the more overwhelmed he becomes. The male should approach sexual life with a relaxed and pleasant mindset. Viewing it as a pleasant game, entertainment, or a walk will naturally make him feel much lighter. However, regarding sexual life as an obligation, punishment, harmful behavior, or a "test" of one's emotions and sexual ability is not conducive to relaxation. Building confidence is key to eliminating anxiety and fear about sexual life.
Lifestyle Care:
Once the patient is in a relaxed state, give instructions under hypnosis that the penis can become erect. After several sessions of hypnotherapy, penile function can be well restored, allowing normal excitement and erection.