Ism: Make the boss disappear

Author: Liu Weilin
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Publish Date: 2005-06-01
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Facing the hectic and demanding life every day, and the endless small and big chores, have you grown tired of it, wishing you had three heads and six arms to sort everything out? Do you feel that the way you live is nothing like yourself? You have a wonderful job, a thoughtful partner, and a beautiful car, yet you find yourself exhausted every second! Are you truly helpless against these recurring cycles of depletion? If your thoughts have dulled and you're no longer as sharp as before, it doesn't mean you're old or stupid—it just means your true self is buried, struggling to breathe.
If you're choosing what to do or think about, but you place others' expectations above what's important to you, then you've contracted the "fictional contagion." Your true self has been infected by distorted ways of living, and the real you has been ignored, instead creating a fictional self. If your life includes things you call unpleasant, yet you continue to do them, it also means you've betrayed yourself. For example, can you not exercise, not go back to school, not change jobs, not bravely face a dull marriage, not date, not cultivate hobbies? If so, you can never coexist with your natural, original self.
If your life is dominated by constant anxiety and worry, yet you haven't taken any action to change the situation, that's also a bad sign. The core issue is that you're not living as yourself. But do you know how to do that? Through the plan laid out in this book, it will help and inspire every reader to bravely confront the deepest of their inner self, allowing you to reposition what's important to you and take control of your life. In this way, your daily life will be filled with vitality, and you'll achieve a balanced and complete life. Only by being true to yourself can you achieve success.
Since childhood, everyone has been influenced by family, school, and society, establishing many behavioral norms and habits. Unconsciously, these external standards and values have dominated our lives. In the process of forming these "agreements" in our hearts, out of fear of being different from others, we gradually compromise, settling for rigid, uncreative, and self-contradictory external belief systems. We constantly tell ourselves not to do this or that, and even blame ourselves endlessly for breaking these agreements, leading to a life of repression, fear, and unhappiness, completely losing ourselves.
The author deeply understands the importance of this "life wisdom" and is determined to share his insights with others. He clearly analyzes the origins of "self-limitation" and how it robs life of joy, causing endless torment. This book seeks to break the external belief systems that constrain people's minds, teaching us to build a brand-new self-system: let your words be pure and unblemished, don't easily accept things, don't make assumptions, and strive to do your best at all times. In this way, you can freely express your true self, unleash your life force, create a brand-new way of living, and experience freedom, happiness, and love.
Start by pleasing yourself and carefully discover your style. If you feel excited about life every day and think you're a great person doing great things, then the life you're living is likely in alignment with your true self. When you honestly examine your life step by step, you'll begin to feel a sense of power and peace—perhaps something you've never experienced in years.
Throughout your life, have others always been your boss? Why not try being your own boss? Before doing anything, ask yourself: Are you carrying burdens when you do this? Is it a good thing or a heavy load.
This book is dedicated to all office workers who suffer for their jobs, their lives, and their dreams, empowering you to be the master of your own life and build an efficient and happy life. Let you own yourself, own the world.
The book clarifies the four burdens that hinder life and confidence, explaining how to use small games and cocktail training methods to let go of these burdens. It lists the effects of a burden-free work life, defines what a burden-free work situation is, and provides ten bold games and nine mantras to help everyone resist life's burdens and live freely as themselves.
Be true to yourself, live passionately.