Heidi's Sexology Report - Women Edition

Author: Xue'er Heidi
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Publish Date: 2002-09-01
Features: Here is a wealth of sexual experiences, completely different from the boastful claims about sex by men. The sexual experiences described by these women in their own words can precisely overturn women's biases and aversion to sex. More importantly, beyond the book—You have been invited, after reading and reflecting, to write your own sequel. — Zhang Juanfen, Journalist
Within Heidi's research framework, sex is no longer constrained by the traditional biological function of reproduction. Sex is "self-care and self-nurturing," "shared intimacy," and even the source of women's pleasure, climax, satisfaction, and experience. — He Chunru, Associate Professor of English Department
This book attempts to present the private whispers behind the masks, exploring the truth to uncover layers of myths and help us better understand the sensations of our bodies. But the truth may not exist; within the myths, aside from the remnants of patriarchy, there is nothing else—just like pop singer Madonna said, the very elements of lust itself are layers of masks. — Ping Lu, Writer and Literary Critic
In this book, I want to show is female sexuality (male sexuality will be introduced in another volume), which refers to the sexual practices that have been ignored or suppressed by the fertility models that have dominated various societies for many centuries. Female climax is a sexual state that most women can easily achieve during masturbation. However, in the sexual definitions we know, the sexual stimulation—clitoral stimulation—that most women reach climax through is often excluded. This means, in their view, either female climax is not as important as male climax, or women should try to achieve climax through the same stimulation that brings male climax—vaginal intercourse. The fact is, most women are more likely to reach climax through some form of clitoral stimulation (almost all women can easily reach climax through clitoral masturbation). This research reveals that only a few women achieve climax through " intercourse," while most women merely pretend to reach climax in the presence of men. So, how can women achieve selfhood, and how can sexual behavior become more equal and diverse? First, we need to have information. The book lists the testimonies of thousands of women from different countries. Not only do they describe when they reach climax and how they experience it, but they also share their experiences of sex, as well as their likes and dislikes. This information is unique to this book. To gather this information, I spent years extensively consulting women's inner thoughts and experiences. Based on their testimonies (which abound in this book), my conclusion is: women and female climax are in no way at fault; what needs to change is society itself. The pressure on women to achieve climax during " sexual intercourse (coitus)" forces them to comply with society's exclusion and suppression even in private moments. Women are taught that they should change themselves, to "learn to climax during intercourse." However, what needs to change is not women, but this society. It needs to reevaluate the definition of "sex."