Patient's question:
I have been masturbating for a long time. Now my penis is small and I have premature ejaculation, lasting only one or two minutes. What should I do?Doctor's answer:
It is recommended to abstain from masturbation for those who have this habit. Next, do not be tense during sexual activity, focus on foreplay, choose a relatively warm and comfortable environment, and opt for positions like male-on-bottom or side-lying. These positions are more relaxing for men. Wearing a double-layered condom can cover the glans of the penis, reduce its sensitivity, and prolong ejaculation time. If one condom is not satisfactory, another can be added on top.For younger patients, they can extend sexual activity duration by increasing the frequency of intercourse. Specifically, engaging in a second sexual encounter within an hour after ejaculation can significantly delay ejaculation time. Alternatively, having one sexual encounter at night and another the next morning before getting up can also help. I believe that with continuous sexual experience and constant adjustment with your partner, the duration of sexual activity will gradually increase until it reaches a satisfactory level. So, do not worry about it.
I suggest you try my method for a period of time. If the duration of sexual activity is significantly prolonged, medication may not be necessary. However, if the duration remains unsatisfactory and both partners are unhappy, medication could be considered.
Advice: Currently, there are advertisements claiming that certain drugs, such as sex hormones or aphrodisiacs, can increase the size and girth of the penis. This is purely a scam—do not believe it. Temporary penile girth enlargement caused by negative pressure suction or manual massage is not true enlargement; it is merely due to excessive blood filling in the corpora cavernosa. Penile elongation surgery can extend the penis, but this is only for patients with excessively short penises who undergo cosmetic surgery to lengthen it by 2–3 cm. This surgery involves cutting the suspensory ligaments of the penis and then suturing them back together, which will inevitably reduce the stability of the penile base. Generally, if there is no discomfort, the penis can still achieve normal erection, and sexual activity is satisfactory, penile elongation surgery is unnecessary. In reality, there is no need to overly concern yourself with the size of your penis. As long as it functions normally, can complete sexual activity, and satisfies both partners, that is enough.