Patient's question:
I and my girlfriend are both first-timers. We put on the T, and I had a very strong erection. However, her area is quite small. So it always slipped out, and even when we tried to hold on firmly, it easily slid to the sides. Due to the fear of hurting her, we spent a lot of time on it before giving up. I wonder if it's usually so unsuccessful? First-time issue supplement: My erection was very strong, and I was in great condition. But no matter how hard I tried, it would slip...One more thing to add.
Doctor's answer:
The first time having sex, both the man and the woman are very nervous and excited at the same time. Additionally, because the woman's hymen is intact and she has no sexual experience, her vagina will be very tight. Moreover, because she is worried about the pain of the hymen breaking, she may become even more nervous. This is one of the reasons why the first sexual experience may fail. It can be difficult to insert. Before engaging in sex, it's important to relax and not be nervous or excited. Don't rush the insertion. Instead, engage in mutual caressing to allow both partners to reach a state of sexual arousal. This will ensure the penis is fully erect and the woman's perineum is sufficiently lubricated. The best position is the man-on-top position, where the woman spreads her legs to fully relax her perineum. The man should avoid being too rough. This can reduce the woman's pain. It's recommended that both partners clean themselves before having sex. The man should clean his foreskin, and the woman should clean the inside and outside of her vagina.