Patient's question:
I always insert my fingers in, it feels great, sometimes I can't help it, what should I do? Also, what is the normal length of the labia minora in girls?Doctor's answer:
Hello: The size of the labia is a matter of personal variation, but you must actively abstain from masturbation! The side effects of female masturbation can be categorized into three aspects:First, prolonged masturbation can lead to a dependency habit, where one cannot experience pleasure without this familiar routine.
Second, long-term reliance on fingers for genital stimulation creates a sense of unfamiliarity or rejection toward a partner's genitalia, even resulting in clinical resistance.
Third, habitual masturbation can foster severe psychological biases. Individuals addicted to masturbation fail to recognize that sexual intimacy is a mutual, shared emotional experience involving both partners. Instead, they remain confined to their own solitary satisfaction, leading to a disconnection between their physical and emotional connection with their partner, hindering mutual affection.
Thus, masturbation should not become a habit, especially not a dependency. It should only be a temporary form of self-pleasure before marriage, not the normal destination of sexuality. Fortunately, male masturbation is less of an issue post-marriage, as the stimulation of the male masturbation environment typically does not match the intensity of a female's vaginal environment. Most men abandon it in favor of normal genital intercourse after marriage. However, this is not the case for women. Due to the clitoris often being less directly exposed, women may struggle to achieve deep pleasure during intercourse if the penis does not provide sufficient stimulation, making it difficult to reach climax. For women with a masturbation habit, manual stimulation allows them to reach climax more easily, leading them to continue relying on masturbation for satisfaction. This ultimately harms their partner's feelings.