Patient's question:
I am 38 years old this year, and I have always had symptoms of premature ejaculation in sexual matters, unable to satisfy my wife's needs. She feels "hateful towards her husband" because he is not a wolf. One noon, I was taking a nap at home alone when suddenly I had a desire. So, I revisited the "Five Hits One" technique I learned in school. That evening, my wife came home and insisted on me reviving her passion. Hey, you won't believe it, but I unexpectedly lasted for 5 minutes during intercourse, and my wife was extremely satisfied. What could be the reason for this?Doctor's answer:
Most healthy men, if not controlled, will reach orgasm within 2-3 minutes of thrusting in the vagina. If foreplay is not sufficient, women are unlikely to achieve sexual climax.Masturbation is a very natural physiological phenomenon, and post-marital masturbation can also compensate for insufficient sexual activity between spouses. More importantly, masturbation can, to some extent, help men alleviate the pressure of premature ejaculation and assist in enhancing sexual performance.
The stimulation of the penis during masturbation is greater than the stimulation it receives in the vagina. Moreover, it is a personal act that allows for better relaxation and control, enabling maximum release. After masturbation, a man's penis head sensitivity is significantly reduced. Additionally, men who have masturbated are generally less eager for intercourse and prefer to gradually build arousal during foreplay, allowing them to give their partner more kissing, touching, and other forms of stimulation, ultimately achieving a harmonious connection.
However, post-marital masturbation should be done in moderation—it should not be excessive, as overindulgence can be harmful.