Patient's question:
Hello,My wife and I are both inexperienced in sex. On our wedding night, neither of us knew how to have intercourse. The most important reason is that I didn’t know how to insert into her vagina. While thinking about it, I experienced impotence, and felt frustrated all night, unable to get erect again. Later, when we tried again, things got worse. Even my wife couldn’t make me ejaculate with her hands.
I have a long history of masturbation, and I have a feeling of fear of sex more than desire. But I’m too afraid to tell my wife, and I keep making excuses to avoid it. I’m really afraid it will always be like this. Can I recover if I stop masturbating now? How long will it take? Also, please ask about sexual health.
Doctor's answer:
Introverted, overly burdened psychologically. I am married, but sometimes I still masturbate when I have a free moment, which has helped me extend my sexual stamina, and my wife is not particularly unsatisfied.So you need to let go of your psychological burden. What you used to do won’t have much impact on your current life. When I got married, I didn’t know anything, not even where to find the vagina. But time is the best teacher, and now I’m quite skilled.
No need to hide it from your wife—it doesn’t matter. I told my wife, before I was married, I had to struggle through life relying on this skill (five strikes one). Now, at last, I’m finally free.
There are plenty of books on new knowledge everywhere now. You can study more!
It’s fine. Good luck!