Patient's question:
First sexual intercourse, my boyfriend said he could only go in halfway, and then he felt as if something, like a wall in front, blocked him from going further.I also felt pain during the process, and there was a lingering ache for the whole day afterward.
Is this normal? Is this considered sexual intercourse?
Doctor's answer:
Your boyfriend has no experience. He said he went in halfway, but it's very likely he only went in a little. What he felt was the labia surrounding him. The hymen is located about 1 to 2 centimeters from the vaginal opening, so it's very possible he didn't even touch it. Second, your hymen might have already been gone from intense physical activity when you were a child. Third, as everyone mentioned, your hymen is thick. Actually, it doesn't matter how it is. You've already given him your first time. What I'm saying is about the psychological aspect.