Patient's question:
Medical Description: I have been married to my husband for two years and we haven't had any children yet. Our sex life has always been harmonious. Last year, I noticed him looking at pornographic images sometimes even asked me to watch with him. I thought those things were pointless, just for show. We're both adults, what haven't we seen? Recently, he's been watching them alone at night. I went to sleep first, and that day I even saw him touching himself. It made me feel really uncomfortable. Why doesn't he think about those things with me? I always keep thinking about that scene. That day, I told him, "What's there to look at? I can find you a lot of things to watch." Now I've noticed he deletes them right after watching, but I can still find the records. I don't know how to talk to him about it without hurting his self-esteem or stopping him from looking. He has received treatment for this in the past.Doctor's answer:
Those who indulge in masturbation for a long time may experience impotence, premature ejaculation, kidney deficiency, and poor health in the spleen and stomach. In terms of mental health, they may suffer from symptoms such as timidity, weakness, introversion, palpitations, social phobia, hypochondriasis, rapid memory loss, and other signs of neurosis. Masturbation leads to the erosion of the brain marrow, making it impossible to accomplish great things. They often feel drowsy and listless, with blurred vision and a lack of energy to do anything, among other terrifying symptoms. It is essential to completely abstain from evil desires, never engage in masturbation again, avoid watching pornography, and not have any thoughts. If such thoughts arise, immediately divert attention or go to a crowded place. If the desire to masturbate occurs, immediately do push-ups until exhaustion. This will eliminate the urge to masturbate. It is crucial to push until exhaustion, as watching pornography is equally damaging to both the body and mind, posing no less harm than masturbation.