Patient's question:
Medical Description: I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, but every time we have sex, I get extremely nervous, my heart beats very hard, and I finish within two minutes. I want to relax myself, but it never works. Experts, do you have any good suggestions? I am also very anxious. Thank you...History of Treatment and Effects: I used to masturbate frequently and developed mild prostatitis, which has been treated.
Desired Help: In terms of psychological support, I hope to get help to eliminate nervousness and find methods to better control ejaculation.
Doctor's answer:
Mainly, it's about the mindset. It's important to go with the flow, and also to moderate masturbation, because masturbation can affect things. Premature ejaculation refers to a sexual dysfunction where, after the penis is inserted into the vagina, the female has not yet reached orgasm, and the male's sexual intercourse time is shorter than 2 minutes, leading to early ejaculation and thus sexual dissatisfaction. Generally, 30% of men experience this condition. Although it may seem minor, it can lead to low sexual quality and may also cause other sexual dysfunctions such as impotence. The consequences are serious, and it should be taken seriously and treated early. It is generally considered that premature ejaculation refers to a phenomenon where a man, after the penis becomes erect, either before entering the vagina, or just as it is being inserted, or even before it begins to move, already ejaculates, followed by natural penis fatigue and entering a refractory period. Clinically, ejaculation before the penis enters the vagina is diagnosed as premature ejaculation. And if the penis enters the vagina for intercourse but quickly ejaculates after only a few movements, it is also defined as premature ejaculation.