Patient's question:
Please ask the doctor, my husband always suffers from premature ejaculation during intercourse. What should I do? What medicine can be taken to treat it?Doctor's answer:
Hello: The following methods can be tried: Both partners should participate in the treatment together. Educate both partners about sexual physiology and other related aspects to relieve mental tension and eliminate fear. Some men may experience one or two episodes of premature ejaculation after marriage due to excessive excitement, which is inevitable. Don't assume a serious illness just because of occasional premature ejaculation. As long as you approach sexual issues correctly and maintain regular sexual patterns, premature ejaculation can be completely avoided.The pain of premature ejaculation affects both partners. If a woman's sexual desire is not satisfied for a long time or she is unable to conceive, she may develop some dissatisfaction, contempt, or even hostility toward her partner. Therefore, women should recognize that this lack of control is caused by psychological factors or other diseases. If a man experiences premature ejaculation, the woman should show extra tenderness, care, and emotional support, which can help him recover more quickly.
Change sexual positions. For example, adopting the female-on-top position allows the woman to perform vigorous friction on the sexual organs, while the man, in a passive position, remains relaxed with lower excitement, enabling both partners to reach climax simultaneously. Alternatively, the side position can avoid intense hip movements and reduce blood diversion from the pelvic area to the limbs due to pelvic congestion syndrome. Due to reduced effort and smaller movement amplitude, the man's excitement develops more slowly, helping to delay ejaculation.
Choose the timing of sexual activity. For instance, having sex after waking up in the morning can provide energy; sleeping first before sex can avoid tension. After a single ejaculation, having sex again that night will definitely extend the duration. Alternatively, masturbating first to reach orgasm and then having sex after the refractory period has passed—these methods can all achieve the goal of delay