Patient's question:
My wife isn't interested in sex, and I don't know if she has a low libido. Every time I want to, she uses her hand to pleasure me. I got married but can't use her, and I'm a very family-oriented person, so I don't want to get involved in anything like extramarital affairs. It's really frustrating, but what's even more frustrating is that I'm worried about the negative effects of long-term withdrawal. It's tough.Doctor's answer:
1. Prone to causing contraceptive failure. Withdrawal refers to the act of immediately interrupting sexual intercourse at the moment of climax, just as ejaculation is about to occur, allowing semen to be expelled outside the body. This natural contraceptive method often fails to achieve its purpose. During sexual intercourse, as both partners experience sexual arousal at the peak of excitement, a small amount of semen may be released along with the contraction of the vas deferens and flow into the vagina. Although the amount of semen is small, it contains the highest number of sperm, making pregnancy more likely.2. Prone to causing sexual nerve exhaustion. Psychological and physiological stimulation during sexual intercourse can trigger a series of changes, including heightened excitement that leads to mental tension, rapid heartbeat, and elevated blood pressure. Simultaneously, the reproductive organs respond with penile vasodilation and muscle contraction, resulting in erection. If sexual intercourse is suddenly interrupted at the moment of climax, it inevitably has a negative impact on sexual psychology. Over time, this can lead to sexual nerve exhaustion, causing conditions such as premature ejaculation and impotence.