Patient's question:
Medical Description: I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, but every time we have sex, I get extremely nervous, my heart beats very hard, and I climax within two minutes. I want to relax myself, but it never works. Experts, do you have any good suggestions? I am also very anxious. Thank you...History of Treatment and Effects: I used to masturbate frequently and developed mild prostatitis, which has been treated.
What Help Do You Want: In terms of psychological support, I hope to get help to eliminate nervousness and find ways to better control climax.
Doctor's answer:
Mainly, it's about the mindset. It's important to go with the flow, and also to moderate masturbation, as it can affect things. Premature ejaculation refers to sexual intercourse that is unsatisfactory due to the male's premature ejaculation before the female reaches orgasm, with the sexual intercourse time being shorter than 2 minutes after the penis is inserted into the vagina. Generally, 30% of men have this condition. Although the problem is small, it can lead to low sexual quality and may also cause other sexual dysfunctions such as erectile dysfunction. The consequences are serious, so it should be taken seriously and treated early. It is generally considered that premature ejaculation refers to the phenomenon where a man, after achieving an erection, either before entering the vagina, or while just entering or shortly after entering without moving, prematurely ejaculates, followed by the penis naturally becoming flaccid and entering a refractory period. Clinically, ejaculation before the penis enters the vagina is diagnosed as premature ejaculation. While those who can enter the vagina for sexual intercourse but quickly ejaculate after a few movements are also defined as premature ejaculation.