How to deal with decreased libido after a man turns forty

Patient's question:

Gender: Male
Age: Forty
Condition: I have had decreased libido for many years. When having sexual intercourse with my wife, why won't my penis erect on its own? I need to touch the head of my penis for a while, but the hardness is not significant. What is going on? I need help and treatment.

Doctor's answer:

Remember there's a saying, "Men face forty trials." Because after the age of 40, many men are struck down by physical decline, reduced libido, and other issues. Male menopause can also bring other external manifestations, such as irritability, lack of enthusiasm for anything, and unpredictable mood swings. Physically, they lose muscle mass while gaining fat. Testosterone changes may also lead to insomnia, difficulty concentrating, and memory loss. Based on the description, consider the condition of depleted kidney qi and insufficient essence-blood, resulting in symptoms like fatigue, lower back pain, and declining memory.
Recommendations:
1. Develop healthy lifestyle habits, adopt a correct mindset, actively exercise, and improve your physical fitness.
2. You may take Jin Shui Bao tablets or Shen Qi pills orally, or consult a traditional Chinese medicine practitioner for herbal medicine regulation.