Why is it completely impossible to have an orgasm during sex?

Patient's question:

Patient Gender: Female
Patient Age: 32
I want to ask why I cannot achieve an orgasm during sexual activity. First, about age.

Doctor's answer:

Actually, at your age, it is naturally a period of high libido. The most important reason for low libido is still due to poor sexual experiences. The sexual techniques of both partners also play a significant role. Orgasm is not achieved through penetration; it is created. Some women may experience orgasm from the very beginning, while others may never experience it in their lifetime.
It is recommended to increase foreplay before sexual activity. Make sure to massage sensitive areas more to enhance lubrication. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Stimulating the clitoris more can promote lubrication and enhance the feeling of pleasure.
At the same time, it is suggested to adopt the male-on-top position, as it can stimulate the clitoris more effectively, making it easier to reach orgasm and experience pleasure.
When there is pleasure and orgasm, there is a greater likelihood of enjoying sexual activity. Enjoyment leads to more pleasure and orgasm. Enjoyment of sex increases the secretion of lubrication, which makes the experience more enjoyable, leading to sexual pleasure and potentially reaching orgasm.
This is a mutually reinforcing cycle.