Do I really love you?

Author: Jin Huinan (Korea)
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Publish Date: 2005-06-01
Features: The following individuals must read this book before falling in love:
- Those who always passively wait for love's miracle
- Those who easily fall in love and get hurt
- Those who cannot sustain love due to various reasons
- Those who try to separate love and sex
- Those deeply wounded by and unable to move on
- Those who cannot bear a moment without love
- Those who are afraid of rejection and dare not date
- Those who always run away from love
- Those with immense hidden pains
- Those who cannot love themselves or others
This book is dedicated to those who long for love but are currently experiencing confusion and pain in love. It has been a bestseller in Korea for 16 editions, with over millions of readers. This is the breakthrough work of renowned Korean psychologist Jin Huinan. It is a book on psychological analysis, dissecting the various problems people encounter in love and marriage. Jin Huinan uses vivid, typical examples to help you uncover the root causes of emotional and marital pain. She says, "You should understand that love needs testing, self-reflection, nurturing, and balance."
Inside each of us lives a child—one who never grows up and doesn’t want to. Like Peter Pan flying to a paradise, she quietly resides in a warm corner of our hearts. Like Oscar in Günter Grass’s The Tin Drum, adults with a childlike heart are inevitably innocent, fearful, and imaginative.
This sleeping child in our arms is tormented by anxiety and suffers from nightmarish dreams. How can we awaken her slumbering soul and give her the courage to face the path of growth? We must seize the right opportunity. Love is such an opportunity—it opens a window for us, filling the future with sunshine instantly. Love is originally a bond where those wounded by pain find solace in each other’s presence. In the process of sharing joys and sorrows, lovers heal each other’s wounds and support each other toward maturity.