Warning Women -- 99

Author: Yu Tianpeng (Compiler) Luo Nan (Illustrator)
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Publish Date: 2004-04-01
Features: This book uses simple and easy-to-understand language, complemented by humorous illustrations, to analyze men's behaviors and offer advice to women in love. Xiao Fang is my university classmate, a graduate with a decent job, but he has never found a satisfactory partner. Last year, I introduced Xiao Min to him, thinking that the two, who shared common interests in pursuing relationships, would end up together. During last year's National Day holiday, Xiao Fang even traveled all the way from Guangzhou to Wuhan to spend the holiday with Xiao Min. I assumed Xiao Min would be moved by Xiao Fang's sincerity, but unexpectedly, Xiao Fang returned to Guangzhou just two days after arriving in Wuhan. It turned out that Xiao Fang, who rarely interacted with women individually before, became quiet and reserved in Wuhan. When the other party asked questions, he only gave brief, one-word answers, creating a very dull atmosphere, and finally, the two ended up in a disagreement.
A survey on the impact of men's sense of humor, conducted by many newspapers and magazines, showed that most women consider a sense of humor to be a virtue that men should possess, an expression of a manly demeanor, and an important criterion when choosing a boyfriend. In conversations between the sexes, if either party's speech is filled with humor, it makes people feel relaxed and comfortable, making the conversation more engaging and the atmosphere more harmonious. Only in this way can the conversation make both parties feel happy and help shorten the distance between them in a short time. Conversely, a man who cannot even tell a joke during a date and only appears serious and stiff often leaves women feeling bored and uninteresting. This feeling of women is not hard to understand, but judging a man based solely on outward appearances often leads to great mistakes. Men like the latter, who are dull and uninteresting, tend to prefer solitude and are not very skilled at socializing, but they are often very patient when it comes to doing things. Moreover, such men will dedicate themselves to research at work and become experts in certain fields. Men who seem dull and uninteresting are often not good at socializing, and in their youth, they may have caused many misunderstandings in interpersonal relationships due to their poor social skills. Such people usually have a narrow social circle, so once they get a girlfriend, they will focus all their energy on her and be very willing to do things that please her, guided by her. This type of man may sometimes become dizzy with longing for his girlfriend and make unexpected, surprising moves like suddenly kissing her. After marriage, such men will see their wives as their biggest spiritual and physical pillars and will not easily shift their attention to other women, making the possibility of infidelity extremely low.
Recently, mass media often conducts surveys. Some results show that unmarried women particularly like men who are considerate and strong. On the surface, it seems that strong and attentive men are becoming more common. However, some of these men completely break their pre-marital image after marriage, undergoing a one-hundred-and-eighty-degree transformation. Although they remain physically strong and tall after marriage, their gentle and attentive demeanor vanishes, and they suddenly become rude, violent, and tyrannical, leaving women shocked. In reality, this tyrant-like image is his true face.