What's wrong with her? What should I do?

Patient's question:

We've been together for two years! At the beginning, our sex life was quite harmonious, but that didn't last long. This year, many problems have arisen in our sex life. She's been having less and less sex with me, always acting cold and showing no passion. When I asked her what was wrong, she said she doesn't like sex and finds it disgusting. She always feels that there's no passion in my kisses and that she never feels like having sex every day. It makes me feel so cold. My heart is also deeply hurt.
I wonder if anyone can give me a good method on how to break through this cold atmosphere.

Doctor's answer:

Hello
Why do women experience sexual apathy?
Sexual life can strengthen the bond between couples, and at the same time, a family without normal sexual activity can be quite terrifying. Over time, the lack of sexual activity may lead to emotional distance between spouses, extramarital affairs, and even divorce. Sexologists point out that 99% of sexual dysfunctions are not caused by physiological factors. If couples learn to understand and care for each other, the lost wonderful sexual life can be restored, and their spiritual life will become even more fulfilling and beautiful.
According to the latest survey results released by the All-China Women's Federation, nearly 60% of professional women in China suffer from varying degrees of "sexual apathy," and these women are all aged between 30 and 40. The surveyed women consistently emphasized, "I don't hate my husband or my family." This phenomenon has attracted widespread attention from many citizens and has also caused great concern among relevant experts.
Professional women with "sexual apathy" often exhibit the following symptoms: constant physical exhaustion and lack of stamina; subconsciously refusing sexual activity with their spouses or even forgetting that it is an essential part of life; frequently feeling that their husbands and families are not considerate enough toward them; having no sense of attraction toward (men) around them, let alone any interest. "The main reason for this phenomenon is still work-related stress," explained Chen Xinxin, a council member of the Chinese Society of Sexology and an expert at the Women's Research Center of the All-China Women's Federation. She first highlighted this point, noting, "The fast pace of social life and intense competition have led to...