Patient's question:
What should I do if my wife has low libido?Doctor's answer:
A simpler approach involves: You should start by addressing her emotional blocks. If possible, entrust the child to your parents or relatives for the entire day. After dropping the child off in the morning, you can arrange activities she enjoys, such as: shopping, watching movies, or visiting a place that holds special significance for both of you. The key is to help her relax and gradually create a romantic atmosphere. Find ways to make her willing to talk about intimate issues between partners. Success in this part entirely depends on whether you can truly be patient. You must remain calm and not rush, guiding her to reveal the root of her problems so you can address them effectively.A more complex approach: You need to prepare for a long-term effort. Since she dislikes physical contact with you, avoid touching her (only with perseverance and determination can you guide her to the path you desire). After about a month, start turning the tables by saying things like: "I really want to, but I know you don’t. I truly love you, and I’m willing to endure this physical suffering for you." Similar lines should be repeated every two weeks. During this time, seize every opportunity to gently ask if she feels any guilt or reluctance, gradually uncovering her true thoughts or reasons. In this part, avoid rushing, as it may easily backfire.