Patient's question:
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we're going to get married after the New Year. Everything between us is great except for one thing that has been confusing me. That's our sex life. He's never seemed to have any demands or expectations about it. Recently, for the past six months, we haven't had any because we're renting and the soundproofing is bad (my younger brother is in the room next door). Also, from the beginning, he never ejaculated—instead, he would finish by hand... Is this normal? How should I handle this problem?First follow-up question: Actually, it's not what you're saying.
Doctor's answer:
Good feelings are the foundation of sexual love. I think it's because you haven't communicated well with him. Men tend to have shorter sexual endurance than women. During sex, you can try talking to him about sexual topics, such as: enjoying sex with him, wanting to prolong the time, or asking him to touch your clitoris while having sex. If you feel comfortable, just say so. If you don't share your feelings with him, how can he cater to them? You need to guide him to bring you to climax and achieve pleasure for a perfect sexual experience.