Patient's question:
My husband is 7 years older than me, and he's just in his early 30s. However, every time we have sex, it's always rushed and lasts only a few minutes. He also lacks much interest in sex. We have sex two or three times a month. In the past, I was worried that I was too conservative, but no matter how proactive I am, he still doesn't seem to be in the mood. Is it a problem with me? Is there any way to treat it?Doctor's answer:
Since sexual activity is a normal physiological and psychological need, if sexual desire is not satisfied, it can lead to many adverse consequences. Men often experience depression, helplessness, and low self-esteem psychologically; some may exhibit unpredictable mood swings, and in extreme cases, domestic violence may occur. Women, on the other hand, may also show emotional instability, irritability, restlessness, and anger, feeling that life lacks meaning or even believing their husband is incompetent. Over time, this can severely impact the couple's relationship and undermine the harmony of the family and the stability of the marriage. It is recommended that you seek active treatment and communicate more!