Laughing at Divorce

Author: Kuang Changfu
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Publish Date: 2003-08-01
Features: The content of this book: Before pursuing love from others, contemporary men and women should first learn to love the other person. Because only by giving love can one possibly receive love in return. If one does not give, yet expects the other to come running with love, even if it is obtained, it will not last. This is because the love of the other is based on your external preferences. Once this external content disappears, the other's love for you will also vanish. Therefore, it is wise to give love first and then receive it, rather than acting foolishly. However, giving love also requires some skill. Love may be selfless, but giving it to an extent of eight is appropriate, while giving it to an extent of ten is counterproductive. For example, for a woman, loving someone too much may make her lose her sense of direction, becoming disoriented at the slightest provocation, as if she were under a magic spell, completely unable to think for herself.