Why was it not inserted successfully at the first time and quickly became soft?

Patient's question:

Last night was my first time with my girlfriend, and we were both virgins. We tried many times, but couldn't insert successfully. Shortly after, I lost my erection. My girlfriend said it was because she was too small, but I'm worried it's an issue with me. My penis is a bit large, and I felt it was difficult to enter. I've had a long history of masturbation, but not very frequently, and I usually have a strong sex drive. However, last night I didn't feel as strong. I hope a doctor can help me check if there's a physiological problem.

Doctor's answer:

Hello, if you are too nervous during your first sexual experience, it can easily lead to sexual failure.
According to the situation you described, it is a normal physiological phenomenon caused by excessive nervousness leading to insufficient penile erection. If you are not nervous in the future, you can have normal sexual activity. I believe everyone knows that male dysfunction can cause significant harm to patients, so it is important to seek treatment as soon as possible. In daily life, pay attention to dietary issues, and maintain a light diet, avoiding foods. Additionally, regular follow-up visits may be necessary if needed.

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