Patient's question:
I always insert my fingers in, it feels great, sometimes I can't help it, what should I do? Also, what is the normal length of a girl's labia?Doctor's answer:
Hello: The size of the labia is a matter of personal variation, but you must actively abstain from masturbation! The side effects of female masturbation can be categorized into three aspects:First, prolonged masturbation can lead to a dependent habit, where one cannot experience pleasure without this familiar routine.
Second, long-term reliance on fingers for genital stimulation creates a sense of unfamiliarity or aversion to a partner's genitalia, even resulting in clinical resistance.
Third, prolonged masturbation can foster severe psychological biases. Individuals addicted to masturbation fail to recognize that sexual intimacy is a mutual, shared emotional experience between partners. Instead, they remain confined to their own solitary gratification, leading to a spiritual and physical disconnect from their partner and hindering mutual affection.
Thus, masturbation should not become a habit, especially not a dependent one. It should only be a temporary form of self-gratification before marriage, not the normal destination of sexual activity.
The good news is that male masturbation is less likely to persist after marriage, as the stimulation of masturbation environments typically fails to match the intensity of a partner's vaginal environment. Most men abandon it in favor of normal genital intercourse. However, this is not the case for women. Due to the clitoris often being less directly exposed, vaginal intercourse may provide insufficient stimulation for deep pleasure, making it difficult to reach climax.
For women with a masturbation habit, manual stimulation allows them to achieve climax more easily. Consequently, they continue to rely on masturbation for satisfaction, ultimately harming their husband's feelings.