Patient's question:
Detailed medical condition and consultation purpose: No interest in sexual lifeCurrent general condition: My boyfriend and I have been sleeping in the same bed for more than half a year, but he never touches me, and we have never had sexual intercourse. I want to ask if there is something wrong with him?
Medical history: None
Previous diagnoses and treatment history and outcomes: None
Doctor's answer:
1, Some women have a sense of uncleanliness in their own private parts and fear polluting their partner.2, During puberty, certain abnormalities in physical appearance are feared to be discovered, leading to feelings of inferiority.
3, After failed relationships or marriages, they feel deceived and may even develop a sense of revenge against men.
4, Concerns about pregnancy, miscarriage, or sexually transmitted diseases may cause them to avoid sexual contact.
5, Pain or discomfort during intercourse makes them afraid of sexual life.
6, The woman views sexual life merely as an obligation of marriage, not as a natural and psychological need like eating. If combined with a lack of sexual knowledge, poor sexual skills, monotonous ways, or even sexual climax disorders, sexual life becomes unenjoyable.
7, Unrealistic expectations of a partner; after marriage, they find that their husband is far from the ideal partner they imagined before marriage, yet they refuse to face reality or adapt to it.
8, The husband lacks sexual appeal or has sexual dysfunction.
9, After giving birth, changes in body shape may make them feel they have lost their attractiveness to the opposite sex, or they may shift too much attention to their child, or they may lose their former passion for sex due to household chores.
10, Some acute or chronic illnesses and the side effects of their treatment drugs can reduce sexual interest, or they may suppress sexual desire due to worries that sexual life may worsen the illness or harm their health.
11, Work stress, fatigue, alcoholism, or excessive mental pressure from certain events may lead to a decline in sexual desire.