Patient's question:
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years, and we will be getting married next year. However, we have never had sex again. Every time he tries to enter me, I feel extremely sad and pull away. Because of this, my boyfriend is also very troubled and doesn’t know the reason. But I just feel sad and painful, sad about the lack of control and insecurity. Actually, he has tried with just one finger, and it wasn’t very painful, but I still feel sad each time. Since I have rejected him so many times, he doesn’t value foreplay before sex anymore. Every time he acts impatient to enter, I restrain myself even more.What kind of help I need: How can sexual intercourse disorder be treated?
Doctor's answer:
Hello, sexual desire refers to a craving or drive generated by specific parts of the brain, which is a special sense that motivates a person to seek or explore sexual experiences. Female sexual desire disorders refer to a persistent and recurrent insufficient or complete lack of sexual fantasies and desires for sexual activity, but it should be excluded that the low sexual desire is a result of mental disorders such as obsessive-compulsive disorder or severe depression.