Don't touch my lover

Author: Shu Chang
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Publish Date: 2006-07-01
Features: Love requires respect. And respect can be mutually infectious. Men respect women's tenderness, beauty, and gentleness, while women respect men's masculinity, courage, and the wealth they create. On the basis of respect, both men and women experience the energy of love. Perhaps random suspicions have brought your family to the brink of collapse, or perhaps innate personalities have made your emotions turbulent, or perhaps painful memories have caused your marriage to crumble. These emotional knots that leave one in disarray occupy life, disrupt work, and cause people to unknowingly get caught in the whirlpool of emotions. Through vivid examples and lively characters, experts use their rich social experience and professional psychological analysis methods to delve into the unknown depths of the inner world, interpret helpless emotional doubts, and expose blind romantic and marital misconceptions, thereby establishing correct views on romantic and marital emotions. In the paradise of love, it is hard for anyone not to experience the bitterness intertwined with the sweetness. The magic of love lies in the yin-yang interaction between the two genders and the dreams it creates. In forgetting reality and not knowing where one stands, one experiences the roller-coaster-like ups and downs and the blissful oblivion. Grasping and controlling love is a difficult task. But men and women share a common desire in our love—this man and this woman are exclusively mine. Unfortunately, the dreams of the two cannot awaken at the same time. Thus, a kaleidoscope of emotions—love and hatred intertwined—arises between men and women. Eventually, even the parties themselves become confused about whether they are loving or hating. The purpose of this book is to help readers understand that the love of ordinary people is related to their inner expectations and desires. Love that comes without discernment is hard to sustain in the long run. We are not saints; from childhood to adulthood, we don't know at which stage we might lose something or have something unmet, and all of this is hidden in our subconscious. Later in life, we unconsciously seek and demand it. Often, this hunger appears in intimate relationships between the two genders, because the loss usually occurs in childhood within the close relationship with parents. What is lost there is then sought again there. That is why adult intimate relationships between the two genders become so complex!