Patient's question:
When my wife and I have sex, sometimes she still needs to help me lightly stroke to get an erection, but it's never quite firm enough. During ejaculation, there's almost no force—everything just slowly trickles out, and the amount of sperm is also very little. Every time I see my wife's unsatisfied expression, I feel extremely guilty. After sex, I feel like I've caught a cold, with a slight headache. Sometimes I also feel dizzy and my legs get weak. What's going on with me?Doctor's answer:
You are describing symptoms of premature ejaculation. It is recommended to identify and treat the underlying cause as soon as possible. Many conditions can lead to premature ejaculation, such as hypertension, diabetes, gout, hyperthyroidism, lower back disorders, depression, and others. These conditions must be treated. Abstain from sexual intercourse and remove the foreskin. Then, take medications like Xiawei before intercourse. Many people have successfully engaged in intercourse after medication, which boosts confidence and helps the premature ejaculation resolve on its own. Erections that are not firm tend to recur, requiring long-term medication. Additionally, male patients should actively seek professional and reputable medical care, and treatment should be considered based on examination results. Also, it is important to limit sexual activity and maintain a positive mood.