Patient's question:
I'm 27 years old, which makes me a mature young man. I've been dating my girlfriend for three years, and she never lets me touch her, saying she wants to wait until we get married. I guess I'm still a virgin. Usually, she helps me with masturbation, and occasionally she gives me oral sex. This year, we met each other's parents and are planning to get married by the end of the year. Last weekend, at my urging, she agreed to have sex with me, but I found that I couldn't get an erection. I managed to get hard, but it went soft right after I entered. Could not being able to get an erection be premature ejaculation? Or am I just too nervous?Doctor's answer:
During sexual activity, if you cannot achieve normal erection, it may be related to your mental tension and psychological stress. Additionally, it may also be related to masturbation. Masturbation can have an impact on the body, making it easier to experience symptoms of impotence and premature ejaculation again. It can also affect overall health. Therefore, it is recommended to quit the habit of masturbation promptly. In this case, it is best to visit a urology clinic for a check-up and take some herbal medicine to strengthen the kidneys and enhance Yang for a period of time. Premature ejaculation can be cured, but the treatment process is generally slow, and the condition is prone to recurrence after treatment. Therefore, it is crucial to actively cooperate with the doctor's medication plan during treatment. Additionally, patients should maintain a light diet.