How to do well in the first year of junior high school

Author: Zhong Miao Miao / Country: Mainland China
Publisher:
Publish Date: 2006-08-01
Features: Getting along with classmates After entering junior high school, I came to a new group and met many new classmates. Perhaps many classmates cannot adapt to these new changes quickly. As a result, it brings great trouble to study and life. Only by integrating into the group can one receive full training and development. The power of the collective is greater than that of individuals, and everyone's growth is inseparable from their own group. So, do you love your classmates and the collective, and can you get along with everyone happily? Are you still fighting alone in a "lonely battle"? To grow up quickly, you must strive to be a person who is good at cooperation and integration. Because no one can be an island, a person must learn to work with others and cooperate with them to achieve success. This habit can make us no longer lonely or confused, because being with classmates, we will receive much sunshine, many laughs, and a lot of love and warmth. The power of an individual is limited; only when everyone works together can they produce immense energy and achieve what one person cannot.
Peter the Great loved to play games when he was a child, especially military games. However, he was an emperor, which gave him an inherent sense of superiority. Therefore, in the games, he always took the lead and rudely ordered his little friends to do this and that, sometimes even beating them casually, causing the little friends to always avoid him. Little Peter also felt that his friends were distant from him, but he didn't understand why, so he went to ask one of his uncles for advice. The uncle listened to his confusion and laughed, guiding him: "Do you hope they can be close to you?" "Yes," Little Peter happily replied upon hearing the uncle's insight. "Do you know what the problem is?" the uncle further asked. "I don't know why I came to ask you," Peter replied unhappily. The uncle said: "Although you are an emperor, they are still willing to play with you, but you always act like an emperor in the games, rudely ordering them to do this and that. It is right that you like to be competitive, but it is not good to use your status to achieve everything." "That was the reason," Peter said happily after hearing the uncle's analysis. Then, he asked the uncle in a troubled manner: "What should I do next?" The uncle saw that Little Peter was sincere about changing, and also hoped that Little Peter would become a respected emperor, so he further guided him: "First, in the games, you should see yourself as an ordinary member of the group, not an emperor, and treat your little friends equally. Then, in your actions, be reasonable to your friends and sometimes listen to their ideas. In short, you must integrate into them, understand and experience their feelings and thoughts, and cooperate with them to complete the games. This way, you will learn a lot." The uncle added: "I think you should try to be an ordinary soldier in the game tomorrow and gradually get closer to your little friends until they accept you." Little Peter nodded. The next day, Little Peter said to everyone: "From today on, I won't be the commander in the game anymore. I'll just be a soldier." Everyone felt very strange. Little Peter then said: "You can call me Peter from now on. I hope you all cooperate in the game and fight our battles well." Gradually, in the military exercises, Little Peter led the charge, fought side by side with his friends, and often, after a game was over, his clothes were torn, and his hands and feet were scraped, but he didn't mind. Instead, he said to his friends: "It's okay. Aren't you the same as me? I'm just a soldier here." P18-19