Always want to have good relationships in class

Author: Zhao Jing / Country: Mainland China
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Publish Date: 2006-06-01
Features: "Friendship Sage" Why Can’t I Make Friends? Why Do I Always Fail to Make Friends Through Letter Writing? I love making friends so much, and I even have a nickname—"Friendship Sage"! People gave me this nickname because I wrote so many letters, but only three people became my real friends. I wanted to make friends through letter writing, but no one replied to me. I don’t know why this happened, and I really want to be friends with everyone. Can you tell me what to do?
Friendship Sage (Male, 11 years old) Smart Kid’s Advice
Friendship Sage: Can you tell me why they didn’t reply to you? According to my personal analysis, there are many reasons. For example, the other person may not know you well, they might be busy with studies, or they may not have received the letter. In fact, letter writing is just one way to make friends, but it’s not the only way. The purpose of making friends is not just to exchange letters, which can be fresh and fun, but to have someone to communicate, learn, and interact with. Do you agree with my view? If you do, then don’t stick to one path and insist on making friends through letter writing. Try a different approach. For example, you can play sports and games with your friends, chat about various topics, and share your learning experiences. Over time, you won’t feel envious of others for having a bunch of friends anymore, because you’ll already have just as many friends as them.
Additionally, while you should have many friends, you should have fewer but more meaningful ones. Remember to make close friends with people who have excellent character. That way, you’ll inspire and motivate each other to constantly improve, and you’ll also be less likely to get hurt. P1-2