Men Love Love - Water Lily Talks About Gender

Author: Shuilin
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Publish Date: 2006-06-01
Features: The above are just five basic points, and each suggestion has its own special significance. Perhaps men might think that the things mentioned above are just small aspects of daily life and not take them too seriously. However, if a man wants to have good love, he must start with these small things. If he disregards these minor details, it will be even harder to achieve other things. Here, let's take one point as an example. If a man cannot cook, over time, he might easily have misconceptions when choosing a partner. For instance: Xiao Wang, a single man, and Old Chen, a divorced man, are both unable to cook. They coincidentally go on a business trip to a certain place together. After the trade show, they meet a single employee, Miss Zhu, from a branch company at the venue. They have a pleasant conversation, and although Miss Zhu is of average looks, she is very warm-hearted. After the meeting, she invites them to her home for dinner. The two men, being too lazy to look for a restaurant outside, readily agree. That night, Miss Zhu cooks several delicious home-style dishes, and the two guests praise her cooking. Xiao Wang sees that Miss Zhu's home is tastefully decorated and that she is skillful with chopping and cooking. He suddenly feels a bit of attraction toward her, thinking about his frustration with eating fast food all day. Old Chen, who has been eating instant noodles since his divorce and often skips meals due to his busy schedule, is immediately drawn to Miss Zhu, talking nonstop and planning to ask her out. The two men are busy trying to think of excuses to ask her out when suddenly the phone rings. Miss Zhu talks for a few moments and then hangs up, smiling and saying, "It's my fiancé—he'll be here for dinner tonight." Hearing this, Xiao Wang and Old Chen instantly deflate like punctured balloons, laughing awkwardly at each other.
If a man can cook some dishes, he is better able to settle his life and will have less dependence. Of course, it doesn't mean men have to be skilled in cooking everything, nor does it mean they should love cooking to the point of opening a restaurant. In fact, it's best for men not to overemphasize cooking skills, because if men are too capable, they might end up with a lazy wife. On the other hand, for men who hate eating alone and spending all their money on takeout, if they can learn to cook for themselves, they can have a more balanced mindset when looking for a partner and won't treat marriage as searching for a free cook. For men who are remarried, they won't be so desperate to find women just to feed themselves.
When men seek love, if their interactions with the opposite sex are natural and pure, it will be easier to find good love.