What should I do if I don't have an orgasm during sex?

Patient's question:

Hello! I have never experienced any sensation or pleasure during sex. (My boyfriend is physically healthy). But when he stimulates my clitoris with his fingers, it seems like I have an orgasm, but this feeling only lasts for about one minute. Does this count as an orgasm?
Will my sex life be problematic if it continues like this in the long term? Will my body develop any issues?
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Doctor's answer:

Hello, female sexual climax is divided into clitoral climax and G-spot climax, which are two different types of experiences.
The clitoris is located above the urethral opening, with significant individual size variations, ranging from rice grain to finger-sized (diameter 0.3-1 cm). Its structure is similar to the male penis, and it has an erection function during sexual arousal. It is an extremely sensitive organ, and simple stimulation can trigger sexual climax. It is also the most commonly stimulated area for many women during masturbation. However, during sexual intercourse, when fully aroused, it may be hidden due to the congestion and enlargement of the labia majora and minora. Therefore, the penis cannot directly stimulate the clitoris during intercourse; it only receives indirect stimulation from surrounding tissues. For the highly sensitive clitoris, this stimulation is sufficient to induce sexual climax. In certain specific sexual positions (e.g., rear entry), a man can also manually stimulate the clitoris, which can make it easier for the woman to reach climax.
Female G-spot climax is a modern discovery. The G-spot refers to a sensitive area on the anterior wall of the vagina. Although there is no clear anatomical evidence to support it, research has found that stimulating the G-spot can induce female climax. Moreover, this climax is different from clitoral climax. During sexual intercourse, the rear entry position is easier to stimulate the G-spot, which is also why some women can only enjoy climax in this position.
The awareness of the female G-spot adds color to the beauty of sexual life. Various enjoyable sexual experiences can maintain the appeal of sexual life and enhance the beauty of love.

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