Patient's question:
I am over twenty-one this year, and I have had a few sexual encounters with my girlfriend. But she always says she hasn't reached climax yet every time, and we usually spend about ten minutes each time, excluding the initial kissing. She has only said "comfortable" a few times. How long does it usually take for a woman to reach orgasm? She told me she might be frigid. Is that possible? Seeking help! Thank you so much!!Doctor's answer:
75% of women need 8-15 minutes of sexual intercourse to reach and enjoy an orgasm, but this is not unchangeable; it can be fully adjusted through behavioral regulation. Some women with less negative sexual attitudes are more likely to reach orgasm, and even gentle caresses or a few loving words from their partner are enough to heighten their desire, allowing them to easily reach and enjoy an orgasm.