Patient's question:
Hello:I just got married to my partner, and during our sexual activity, she always says it hurts, and my penis doesn't go in smoothly. I'm very anxious. Please advise the doctor! Thank you!
Doctor's answer:
First-time sexual intercourse involves both parties lacking sexual experience. Due to a long-standing yearning for the mysterious and unpredictable nature of sexual life, once they enter actual life, their nerves are in a highly excited state. Additionally, excessive exertion before and on the wedding day leads to physical discomfort. During the contact of genital organs, both parties are psychologically awkward, shy, and rushed. The male may easily experience premature ejaculation at the moment of genital contact, before completing the sexual act, resulting in the penis becoming flaccid and unable to penetrate the vagina. In this case, both parties should learn some relevant sexual knowledge and mentally prepare. For the first sexual experience, both can start with sweet and affectionate conversations, then proceed to hugs and kisses, before beginning sexual intercourse. The male should understand the structure of the female external genitalia to avoid rough actions, as excessive force may cause injury to the female genital organs.